Some men feel
helpless and clueless when it comes to getting laid. This feeling of having no
control over the other sex is unbearable to men. I have listened to many men as
they express and tell the stories of their numerous failed attempts to get a lady
in bed, all of these stories revolve round a common theme. Thus the synonymous
nature of these stories, in those various sad expository led to me coming up
with the four major ways you can get laid.
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PLAY TO HER FANTASIES
Never make your intentions
obvious, it is
better to take the long walk by faking interest in something else. Note, there
is a traditional belief that the main purpose of going into a relationship for
men is SEX. Yes, this fact can’t be disputed. I conducted a survey few weeks to
valentine’s day in 2011 using five men and asking each man on separate
occasions the same question, ‘what do you want in a relationship?, surprisingly
four out of the five answered in conformity, the four wanted sex, verifying the
aforementioned traditional hypothesis. Women
are also aware of this fact, so they get turned off immediately when you start
showing characteristics believed to be a way to get them in bed.
Show interest in her look, her career, probably a close relation she
shows great interest in. Make sure you identify her interest and you become
interested as well, even if it is for the main time. Laugh anytime she tries to
crack a joke even when it is dry, show
enough interest to make her believe you are really interested in her and not
for the sex. According to Joseph Weil, ‘a
lie is an allurement; a fabrication that can be embellished into a fantasy. It
can be clothed in the raiment of mystic conception. Truth is cold, not so
comfortable to absorb. A lie is more palatable…’ therefore, fantasize with
her into making her believe you are the right man and you are seriously interested
in her. Women feel sex and want it more with someone they think they trust and
believe is interested in them.
However, never get carried away by your act, showing too much interest
creates room for suspicion, sex is also part of a relationship, so find the balance and do not get
engrossed in the act. Compliment her sexual attributes once in a while, and
then she thinks you are an angel on earth.
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OCCASSIONAL TOUCHES
Frequent but timed touches on her would also do some tricks. An integrated and fulfilled feeling is
generated with touch. The psychology of women for instance reveals that
they love touches and think it is only those who care about them that do touch them.
Pamper her with touches and smile each time you do that, maintaining eye
contacts, it sends a message through you subconsciously into hers, she also
feels cared for at the same time.
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REVERSAL;
do not overdo this, so she won’t feel uneasy when she is with you. Start gently by touching her arms,
shoulders then her palms, before you know it, she is unconsciously
reciprocating this, thus, creating a burning sensation between both of you.
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CONFIDENCE AND SEXUAL ASSERTIVENESS
This does not come with macho body type; it rather comes from special
gestures. A close pal explained how he goes about this, he said, ‘I gently move
them away from coming vehicles, glance at their faces and give a broad and
clueless smile’. Special gestures like this, makes them feel safe and protected
when with you. So be confident when you
are with her.
Also show sexual assertiveness by doing things like a man, SIT LIKE A MAN, NEVER DO ANYTHING LIKE A
WOMAN. Do not cross your legs, this is not a job interview, sit with your legs
apart and maintain your confident self. Jane(original name withheld) explained
she gets stimulated sexually whenever she sees a man sitting with his leg
apart, in her words she said ‘it leaves much to be imagined’.
On the otherhand, do not be too confident,
it only turns you into an egocentric he-goat and make her believe you are just
a proud individual.
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PORN(PORNOGRAPHY OR SEX VIDEOS/XXX)
Do you feel like circumventing the
natural ways you could get laid, try this backdoor, PORN VIDEOS OR XXX FILMS as
it is popularly called. It arouses women
most when the film includes scenes of activity between a man and a woman
involved in a meaningful relationship. Get one with a good and romantic
story and watch it with her. Once she
could identify herself with the woman on the screen, she gets easily aroused.
However, be very careful with the type of
woman you do this with; research has shown that some women do get easily
irritated. They prefer a man that can
get them to bed in the most natural way.
Feel
free to share your comments, your thoughts and questions, I will surely reply.
But please make sure your girlfriend doesn’t read this, complete reversal.
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